His guide to Her.

A blog made by a Guy for the Guys. Put together by feedback given by women across the country. Here, you will learn the ins - and - outs of the Female mind, what makes her tick, what she likes, and how you can ultimately be the Man that every girl dreams of.

It never hurts to ask questions, I always reply with sound advice.

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Anonymous asked
Do you think lesbians can use these tips to?

What’s to say they can’t? (:

Anonymous asked
So I'm a girl seeking advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now. He cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. Its the first time he has cheated. As soon as he found out i knew, a week after he cheated, he sent me a massively long text message saying how he was sorry, and that he planned to tell me, but every time he looked into my eyes, he couldnt find it in himself to tell me. I feel like i cant trust him anymore.. Should i give him another shot if he can reprove his trust?

It seems like he isn’t really that sorry, notice how he only apologized to you once he knew you found out….

If he had it his way, he probably would have never told you. And when a guy is genuinely sorry, he’ll call or talk in person, messages are the easiest way out. I think it’s going to be really hard for you to trust him from now on, especially cause you know he has urges to be with other girls and actually acts on them. It’s ultimately up to what you feel like is best. You guys could take a few months break and then get back together so you can feel like you trust him again. You could stay with him and hope he doesn’t do anything. Or you could break up with him for good.

But like I said, it’s ultimately up to you.

Anonymous asked
I'm not asking any questions about her (I'm a girl), just about love in general. What's the difference between love and infatuation? I'm in my first relationship and we've been dating for a long time (3 years) and I've always thought that what I'm feeling is love, but then recently I started questioning it, because this IS my first relationship, so how do I know what love is? I know that it's ultimately something I have to decide for myself, I'm just wondering what your thoughts are.

Can you see yourself with someone else?

Can you see him with someone else?

Do you wake up every morning excited to see him and go to sleep every night thinking of him?

Are you more yourself with him than with anyone else? 

If you answered No for the first two and Yes for the second two, you’re in love (:

Answer infatuation with this question: Think of the hottest celebrity guy you know, you find him absolutely stunning. Now if he asked you to break up with your boyfriend, would you listen? If you would, then that’s infatuation